(Straight girls who lecture gay men and 2S guys about how homosexuality works. Bless their hearts.)Ī few more wrenches to throw in the werks: There are straight guys who don't have dicks, DICKS. (Guy with dick marries woman with vagina, woman transitions to male, couple remains married.Ī straight guy with a dick could find himself in a relationship with a guy with a vagina. Voila: a 100 percent straight guy is having sex on the regular with another dude.) There's also something of a a huge fucking double standard when it comes to straight guys and sexual exploration. Straight-identified women are allowed to be sexual with other women and still identify as straight (%100 even), while men who have sex with other men-even once-spend the rest of their lives being told they're really bisexual or gay because there's no way they could've done that otherwise. There's also the difference between being homoamorous and homosexual, heteroamorous and heterosexual, biamorous and bisexual, and various combos of all of the above. There are guys out there who like to fuck guys and girls but only fall in love with girls. I think those guys are bi and most of those guys identify as bi. (Bi erasure is a game anyone can play.)Īll that said, there are guys out there who claim to be 100% straight while bouncing from cock to cock to cock-guys who, again, aren't in prison or on pirate ships. Now we all want to live in a world where straight-identified guys can mess around with another guy once or twice without being told they're gay, but we can't be naive and/or credulous: we currently live in a world where homophobia runs rampant.